Archive for April, 2007

A Mental Heath Day

Hello,

Yesterday, I decided to take a mental health day and treat myself.

In the morning, I slept in a bit later and got a cup of coffee. I then went over to the “fancy” hotel next door and spent the afternoon swimming in the pool. I also read some books and slept some more.

I went for a one hour Khmer massage. The massage was great. The girl sang to me in Khmer the whole time. The massage cost me $6 US for the hour. Amazing. After the massage, I went for dinner at an Indian Restaurant. I ate lots of food and loved it all.

At the end of my dinner, I noticed that it had started to rain. that was fine, because I parked my motor bike under a canape and I didn’t have too far to drive. I paid my bill and went out to get my bike. When I got to my motorbike, I found a young boy sleeping on the sidewalk snuggled right up against my motorbike tire. I was parked in a dry area and the boy must have been trying to escape the rain. I moved my bike and woke up for a second and rolled over. The boy was about 10 years old. his clothes were dirty and wet from the rain. He had gravel stuck to his face from sleeping on the sidewalk. He fell asleep again.

I started my motorbike and drove to my hotel. I kept thinking about whether there is anything I could have done different to help this little guy on the cold sidewalk. So much for my mental health day.

Love Gerry

Angkor Wat

Welcome to Angkor Wat

Hello,

Last weekend, I went to visit the temples of Angkor Wat. Angkor Wat must be one of the oldest and well preserved places in the world. It is truely a work of art.

The most amazing part of Angkor Wat is the way that the jungle has mixed with these amazing structures. It shows the power of both people and nature working together. I can’t begin to imagine the amount of time it took to create these incredible monuments. Over the years, the jungle grew around and over the temples. I was amazed at the ability of huge trees to grow right on top of the rocks. It is an incredible sight.
I will tell you more about Angkor Wat and download more pictures in the days to come. Please enjoy the pictures I have already uploaded on flickr. I hope you enjoy this great place.

Love Gerry

Making Friends, in the Wrong Places

Hi there,
A few nights ago, I was sitting outside having a drink with a guy that I met here in Siem Reap. I saw a bunch of kids going through the garbage across the street from me. Later, this group of kids came over and asked for some money. One of the kids recognized me and said “teacher… teacher…”. He then gave me a hug.

I have to tell you that this is one of the hardest parts of my work here in Siem Reap. I teach many children in the morning and play with them and feed them. In the evening, I see lots of these same kids wandering the streets alone, going through garbage and begging from the tourists. I can’t believe these are the same children that were spelling with me earlier or working on a puzzle. It is very sad to see children that you know going through garbage left on the street corners.

These children sat with me at outside the shop where I was hanging out. I had a great time talking with them and playing around. The kids were being friendly and well behaved. they were sitting down and not running around. There was no swearing and lots of laughing. They may be dirty and poor, but they’re just normal kids. A saying here is Asia is “Same, Same, but Different”. I can’t think of a better saying for these children. These are my friends.

We sat together for about 15 minutes, until the owner of the shop came out and told all the children to leave. I told the owner that I knew them and that I wanted them to hang out with me and my friend. I told him that I would buy them drinks from the store. There was no one else at the shop. The owner kept pushing them away with his hand, like they were flies. He had a look on his face like he was so much better than them. I can’t believe I spent even one cent in that shop. I do not support him or his shop. This is the wrong place.

I’m going to be more selective where I spend my money. I will try to spend money at the right places for me.

I have many pictures of these kids on flickr.

Love Gerry

School for Children of Poverty

How many children can you pack into a wooden hut to learn English from a Canadian? The answer… is probably too many!

Hello,

The answer is probably…… too many! This is my class at the school for children of poverty.

This school was established in February 2005 by two monks who wanted to give Siem Reap’s poorest children a future that does not depend on begging. They now provide free education to over 500 children aged five to twenty. Many of these children have lost one or both parents or come from families that can’t afford the daily fee of 300 Riel ($0.05 US) for public schools. In many cases the children work during the day and come to learn for one hour each night.

Many poor children in Cambodia are never given the opportunity to go to school, so those that do have this chance value it deeply. The students are extremely dedicated and eager to take classes. What you don’t see in the picture above, is the many children surrounding the outside of this hut, trying top participate in my class.

I’m having the best time teaching classes here at this school. I have two classes every day and both are jam packed with students. Teaching with this many children has been a big challenge for me. Many of these children come to class without books, pens or pencils. I have to be very creative in my teaching. I think I’m enjoying these kids so much, because we are learning and also having fun. I’ve been teaching them letter sounds and combine teaching with learning games that the children enjoy. I started teaching the a song the other day and the kids can’t get enough of it. It’s “The Lion Sleeps Tonight”. The kids are singing this song as they leave my class and I can here it all night long as they play.

At first, I didn’t understand why these kids got such a kick out of this song. The reality is that most of these children have never had the opportunity to sit with other friends in a classroom setting. They haven’t had the chance to even learn a simple song together. How would you feel, if you never had any school experience? I think something would be missing.

This school is struggling right now. This is the school that I wrote about a few weeks ago. The founder of the school died in an accident less than a month ago and they are left with a young man leading everything. I am spending every day with him trying to open a bank account for the school, getting a donation box for the school, trying to get school tours for tourists to donate money and getting advertising in place in local shops and hostels. If anyone is interested in supporting this school, please let me know. You know… this school of 500 children runs for less than $200 US a month. The $200 is used to rent the land and pay for electricity and limited supplies for the children. There are no salaries paid to anyone. Without donations this school will cease to exist. I am getting very attached to this school and the children. The class is full of energy. The kids are full of hugs and affection.

I gave the children pencils, pens and a ruler. The children got so excited taht they were jumping up and down. It was very happy, but also very sad at the same time. It only takes very small things to make people here happy. I won’t forget the smile I got from one little girl, as I gave her her first pen, pencil and ruler set that she ever had. Amazing.

Please look at my pictures on flickr.

Love Gerry

Reality of School in Cambodia

Hi there,

I usually get up around 7:00 in the morning and sit outside my hostel. I have made friends with a group of four kids that are staying at the hostel with their father. They are cousins and are staying at the hostel to help clean the rooms and do laundry. The kids are between the ages or 13 and 15 years old.

I sit outside in the morning and joke with these kids. These kids only speak a few words of English and we can only communicate through my English-Khmer dictionary. I teach them English words in the morning and they teach me some Khmer. We usually end up laughing more then we learn. It is a great way to wake up. I don’t even need to drink coffee here, because I’m so energized.

I had a long discussion with the children’s father. These four kids aren’t going to school at all. These kids went to school for many eight months in their life, but had to stop. Their father told me that it costs them $0.50 US a child every day. Everywhere I go in this country, there are kids working in shops and selling on the street. I heard a story from a man that said that only the rich kids go to good schools. He told me that the government schools are often corrupt. The wages they pay are very poor, so the teachers are low quality. The good teachers, tutor students instead of teaching in a government school. There are many stories that people just pay the teachers for kids to pass exams. I’ve heard some crazy stories.

That said, I am heart broken to think that these four nice kids may never get a chance to go to school. They are such nice kids and work hard around the hostel. The cycle will never end, until someone notices and takes and interest in helping them for no pay. It is very difficult to understand and accept. I’m finding it very hard, especially when I start to know these kids better. I’m also finding it hard not to get upset at the many children in North America that skip classes and drop out of school. They should spend one day in the dump or on the street selling postcards and maybe realize the advantage they have been given in life. Tell me the answer to all this.

Love Gerry

$.50 US a day may not sound like much money to us, but this is a country where many people many less than $30 a month. Even in the tourist industry, people only get paid $30 to $40 a month on average and work from 10:00am to 12:00am. There are no laws that require vacation time and/or extra pay for overtime work. If people are lucky, they get one day off work. Many only get two days off work a month. School is also time away from the kids earning money. That is the reality.

Life on the Streets

“Look closely and you will see a little girl”

Hi there,

This is a hard blog for me to write.

I went out last night for dinner and then a few drinks. I was having a nice time and heading home around midnight. I walked along the street towards my home and looked over at a young boy walking beside me. He turned away and headed off a little way down the street. This little boy moved a whole bunch of boxes off the sidewalk. Under these boxes, I was a little girl sleeping on the sidewalk. She sat up afraid of the boy moving her boxes and sat there with tired eyes. She was probably around 6 years old.

I didn’t know what to do. I walked over and asked this little girl if she was alright. She looked at me a little scared and didn’t say anything. There is nothing that I could do. It was late and there are no shelters around that I know about. There are many kids around late at night and there is no reason why they would take this child over any other. So, I just smiled at this little girl and had to leave her there.

Tonight, I understand how people can give up everything and start an orphanage or centre for street kids. I understand the feeling of not being able to do anything and wishing I could. I couldn’t get this girl out of my head last night. I couldn’t help but think that this little girl should be at home. She should have someone read her a bedtime story and tuck her under warm blankets. Instead, she lie on the dirty road under boxes with drunk people passing her by. This world has gone crazy.

Love Gerry

PS: Tomorrow, I will tell you about one place in Siem Reap that is working to help street children.

Water in the village

Can you believe…
That this little girl…

Drinks water from this bucket…

The bucket is stained red from all the iron in the water!

Hello,

I spent the morning with a group called Trailblazer. This is an NGO in Siem Reap that builds and installs water filters in poor villages in the province of Siem Reap. It was wonderful going into the villages and setting up these filters. The kids in the village would come out and surround us and we put in the simple system that would give them clean water.

I continue to be amazed by the people I meet on my travels. The founder of this organization had a furniture store back at home. He started this organization with his wife and has spend the last two years in Siem Reap. He told me that they go back home sometimes to work and make money to support him and his wife living here. The money raised by this organization is used to build and install these simple water cleaning systems.
The water filters that we left in these villages cost $45 US to build. The cleaning system is basically a concrete tube that has different layers of sand. The water flows through the sands and 90% of the iron is removed and the water is cleaned. Something so simple, can reduce sickness of children and adults in the villages. I read that one out of seven children die under the age of five years old, due to health problems that are primarily the result of poor water.

It was a good day. It was a hot day. I continue to be encouraged by people that make different life choices, to help the lives of others. I’m finding many of these people along the way. We often only hear about the bad people in this world. I’m once again encouraged by the many good.

Love Gerry

PS: I have some pictures of this little village girl. This tiny girl was cooking food and doing dishes. I stared at her in wonder as she cooked this stuff over a small outdoor flame. I will put these pictures on flickr in the next day.

April 17, 2006 - Update

Hello,

I’m getting many e-mails from new people that are starting to read my blog. I’m very glad that so many people are taking interest in my travels and journey. If you are new to the blog, please take time to read my posts on the Cambodia Dump Children and the Centre for Children’s Happiness. This is a cause that is very close to me. My blogs are saved in the ac hive folders on the right of your screen. I also have many pictures of children at the dump and my new family at the Centre for Children’s Happiness that can be found on the flickr link.

This afternoon, I’m going to the school for poverty children and working with the Director on a strategic plan for the school. I’m also going to visit a restaurant here that was started to train street kids in business and cooking. Tomorrow, I have made arrangements to travel with a group called “Trailblazers”". They install water filter systems in villages nearby to give the people access to clean water. I am also going to visit an orphanage in the afternoon. I start working with the Green Gecko project on Thursday and start teaching at the school on Friday.

I have received some responses to helping the Centre for Children’s Happiness. We almost have three children sponsored that I know personally. There any many more beautiful children that need sponsors. Please send me an e-mail if you are interested. I will be returning to CCH before I leave and can get videos and pictures of the child for you to make this a more personal experience for your family. I also know lots about the kids personality and can share stories with you. I’ll be working on starting an organization and web site for the centre when I get home.

Love Gerry

Middle of no where

The School for Poverty Children
(This is my classroom)

Hi there,

In the middle of no where, there are people trying to hep the lives of very poor children. In the middle of no where, over 300 kids come to study in small wooden shacks built on rented land and run comlpetely by volunteers. I can’t wait to tell you more about this place in the rough.

Love Gerry

An abused country and people - the Killing Fields

Hi there,

The last week that I was in Phnom Penh, I took a motorbike in the country to the “Killing Fields”. I don’t want to get into the history of Cambodia in this blog. In summary, less than 20 years ago, a group called the Khmer Rouge came into power. This happened shortly after America’s aggression into Vietnam and their unlawful bombing of the Cambodia border. Cambodia was a neutral country in that war.

When the Khmer Rouge came into power, they had the ideology of creating a “pure”culture that followed their rules. The KR basically drove everyone outside of Phnom Penh running to the country side. They began a process of genocide where any one with learned skills (i.e. doctors, lawyers, business men) were executed and children. The estimate is that the KR exterminated around 3 million people in Cambodia.

In the country side is a place where many of the executions took place. It is now called “”The Killing Fields”. There was a movie prepared about this time in Cambodia that can be rented at most video stores.

I walked onto into the very place where the many executions took place and where people were buried. It is a huge area of land all covered by green grass. Walking through the fields is like walking through an area that was bombed. There are huge holes dug up all over the place. Some are smaller holes and other holes are very large. You have to watch your step as you walk among the many holes dug in the ground. The holes are the places that were dug up as mass graves. Many of the holes have signs that tell you the number of people and the age of people’s bodies that were found is each massive grave. There are holes where the children are buried. There are holes where people were found that had no head, likely because of decapitation. there were holes everywhere in this huge country field.

In the middle of the field there is a tall monument that was built. The monument is many stories high. Walking into the monument, you realize that the entire height of the building is filled with the skulls of humans that were found in the graves. The whole building was full of skulls. These were all lined up on different levels and the shelf often had a reference to the age and/or sex of the people that were executed and found in this spot.

I can’t explain the feeling I got standing in the middle of all these massive graves. I tried to imaging the bodies that were thrown into the holes and the way it would have looked at that time. There are some pictures that on display that show the horrors. Many people here say that this genocide was equivalent or even more brutal than the genocide of the Hitler regime.

I also went to the place called “Tual Sleug”. It used to be a large school house. When the KR took over power they converted the school to a torture and death camp. I walked through this earie place and it’s hard not o imagine the sufferings that occurred. The class rooms were all divided into small areas by brick walls. The brick walls were high to the ceiling and were used to trap the prisoners alone. The walls still stand today. There is wire fencing around the entire school complex. A way of torture in that time was to hang people up by their feet from a big structure. They then lowered them so their heads would drop into a hug bucket of chemicals. This would bring them extreme pain, but not kill the prisoner. The structure that was used to hang the prisoners was still there and the large buckets were there in front of me. There were many horrible pictures displayed that I could tell showed the very place, structure and buckets that I stand there and touch. On the walls in this place are the pictures of thousands of people killed at that old school house. It is a dreary feeling to walk among the thousands of pictures and faces of people killed. Many of them were children. There is picture of a young girl that caught my attention. I could not stop looking in her eyes as clearly seen in the picture. For some reason, I felt that she was still there in that place. It was a very disturbing feeling I had as I kept looking over at her. This picture was taken just before she was exterminated.

I talked to many people that said they would never return to this place. I talked to many people that didn’t want to hear about the horrors of the past in such a graphic manner. I believe that learning about this past is important in understanding the present and future.

The average age of the population in Cambodia is said be be around 16 years old. Many of the older people were exterminated. This country has been left open to extreme poverty and abuse of it’s many children. It is a very sad history.

Cambodia is getting to be addictive for me. The people here are nothing short of amazing. I may never leave this place. Or, it will never leave me. The future holds may paths for those that seek.

“It is a land where the depth and beauty of the people and culture are matched only by the depth and enormity of the people’s sufferings.” Amit Gilboa

Love Gerry
I will add my pictures to flickr tomorrow.