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Where Have All The Children Gone

Hello,

I arrived in Siem Reap in the early evening. Later that night I went to walk around the streets where I previously strolled and wrote about. I was excited to meet up with some of the kids I knew from before. When I got to that location, I quickly noticed that all the street kids were gone.

I asked a driver about them. He told me that tourists were complaining about people begging on the streets, so the government introduced a new law forbidding any begging in certain areas of the city. When children continued to beg, they were thrown in jail. When the children returned, they were often put in trucks and taken to the country side.

I actually miss the kids. Perhaps, some tourists should have taken the time to say hello to them. I wonder how they make money to eat now?

Love Gerry

Still Living There

Hello,

I recognize some of the children on the dump. This visit, I saw a girl that I met before on my last visit. It struck me really hard this day, because I realized that she was still living there months and months after I left. And, she will still be there on my next trip, if no one helps her out. It’s unreal that some children have to live this way.

Love Gerry

The Theory of Thin Slices

Hello,

I had an interesting thought during my travels. I was having something to eat and talking about the kids. I feel that I know many of them very well now. In our discussion, the person asked me if they could all speak English. And, I told him that the older children spoke well and the younger children were just learning. He asked “so, how do you know these younger kids?”

The next day I actually paid closer attention to the amount of English some of the younger children spoke. It was very very little. And yet, the amazing part is that I could tell you many things about these children, including lots about their personality traits. Yet, I couldn’t talk to them.

I read in a book once about the “theory of thin slices”. The theory suggested that if you pay attention and trust your intuition, you can know a person in only a few minutes. It suggested that many people take years to try to know someone and make decisions about things like marriage. Well, the theory would suggest that intuition is more important than time.

So, I can’t talk with many of the children. Yet, I could talk about each of them for hours. You often only need to take a thin slice to know the rest of the cake.

Love Gerry

A “Hello” is Simple

Hello,

During my previous visits, I had met a young girl selling books on the street. I remembered this girl especially, because I never bought anything from her and told her that I wouldn’t buy her books, but we could be friends. She never tried to sell anything to me and stopped all the other kids when they bugged me for money. Anyway, I was walking down the street on this day and this same girl ran up to me said “Hello Gerry. How are you?” She remembered my name after all this time away. Soklin remembered my name. And, she has never again asked me to buy another book. We sometimes sit at a table and play the game “Connect Four”. She beats me every time.

Two months after I left Cambodia, I received a phone call from an Internet shop. Soklin went to every place where I hung out to ask if they knew me. She found my friends at the Frog and Parrot and got my phone number from one of them. She phoned me from an Internet phone to tell me that she was still going to school and that she wanted to know when I would come back to play “connect four” with her again. I got to know Soklin from a simple “hello”. And, her simple “hello” back to me after returning to Cambodia and on the phone is most special.

Love Gerry

December 31, 2007

Hello,
I have so many things to tell you and I’m struggling to find the time. I will be adding my reflections over the next two days, as I leave Siem Reap. I want to tell you many things, including the following:
- Our Christmas day at the dump with over 500 children from the dump
- Our Christmas celebration at the Center for Children’s Happiness, with fish dinner and Khmer music
- The incredible welcome by the children of Green Gecko - the amazing progress of this project
- My time with a very poor family here in Siem Reap and amazing memories (but, difficulties eating “Fresh” meat)
- The day I spent taking this poor family to the waterfall - dancing in their hut - hearing about their struggles - amazing memories
- My progress on signing up two new projects for Canodia support
- Street kids thrown in jail and put in trucks to the country, because tourists found they “annoying”
- Thoughts about the proposed youth house for CCH
- Why I love Cambodia and these people, even moreso today

Please stay tuned. From Cambodia with love. Gerry

December 22, 2007 - A Hard Day

Hello,

I want to write you everything about today, but I can’t get everything in writing.  I’m exhausted.

I started the day at CCH and had a most incredible time with the younger children.  The second I arrived, kids came running.  Then, a girl that’s sponsored by a school in Winnipeg gave me the most incredible hug.  It was Srey Muoey.  She wouldn’t leave me.  Then, kids were telling me to come here… and the pointed up the stairs.  They said… “Srey Pich is up there”.  The kids knew that my niece Hannah sponsored Srey Pich.  Well, Srey Pich came down the stairs and was beautiful.  The rest of the day was spent playing games and dancing and talking and hugging. 

 At one point, Srey Muoey poked me and said “When you leave. I be sad.” And, she started to cry.  I couldn’t stop her from crying.  A Khmer teacher came to talk with her.  These kids have very few consistent people in their lives.  It just breaks my heart.  Srey Muoey has no parents that visit her.  What a child.

I like to face reality right on, because this is where I learn the most.  I left my little “heaven” with the children and went to the dump.  This time, I stayed there for a long time.   Perhaps, I stayed there too long, because it really got to me today. When I got back to my hotel, I couldn’t get the smell off me.  It was almost like it was there to haunt me.  I showed many times and couldn’t get rid of the people I met and the smell.   

At the dump, I had more courage today and went right into the action.  I met tons and tons of kids.  I had courage to walk right in the middle of everything.  It was almost too much as trucks drove all around me and people ran through my path.  I saw a girl that I recognized from the last time.  I realized that she has been here for the past six months.  I’m not a doctor, but this place is horrible and she won’t live a long life if she stays here.  If I don’t do anything, maybe she will always be here.   But, what can I do right now?

I found a few groups of children that could talk English.  I asked them “Do you know what Christmas is?”  I said, “Say Merry Christmas”.  Time after time they said “What’s Christmas?”  They couldn’t even say the words to me, because they’ve never even heard it before.  I didn’t know what to do.  I thought that they would at least understand somewhat.  So, what do you tell a kid that lives in a garbage dump?  How do you tell them about Christmas?  How do you tell them that God and people care?  And then, leave them there.  It’s very hard.
Tonight, I walked to this internet shop.  I try to walk the streets here almost every day.  Tonight, I saw a girl that I knew from my trip before.  She ran to me and hugged me and said ”You Gerry? From Canada. I remember you.  You remember me?”  I could believe it.  We talked for a long time and she told me that her mom got money and now she can go to school. She told me that she sells books now on the street until midnight.  She told me her Dad died a year ago, because he had a bad heart.  I told here that I couldn’t buy any books tonight. She said “It’s ok. Me don’t want you to buy a book. We’re friends.”  It’s just too much.  And yet, I can’t get enough of it at the same time.

Tomorrow is Christmas on the dump.  The kids are getting ready for the day and I’m sure it will be amazing.  I want to thank a new group of people that are supporting us from the Richmond Kings Nursery School.  They’re helping us to feed 300 children from the dump.  And, together with many other supporters… we will make a change.   If only we affect one person, it’s worth everything in the World.  And I thank you all.  Please continue to help, because there is so much that we can do to help.

Thanks for caring about these children.

Love Gerry 

December 21, 2007

Hello,

I arrived in Cambodia safe and sound.  I had a great flight and spend the time getting myself prepared for a switch from nice hotels and meals to living and being in a third World country.  I often have difficulty living in these two Worlds that are are very different from each other.

The first night in Cambododia and went out to walk the streets.  I found it harder this time, because a few of the kids I met appeared to be in a horrible state.  It’s hard to tell you about the numbers of children out here tat wonder at all hours.  It’s everywhere.

The next morning, I eagerly went to the orphanage.  I’ve never had such an incredible greeting in my life.  Kids ran from left and right and the hugs were the most amazing.  These kids are so affectionate and loving.  I guess they don’t have many consistent and important people in their life.  The more consistent I become here, the more the children seem to attach.  And, it’s the most incredible thing. 

The other most amazing thing is to see these children grow and learn.  Some of the children that couldn’t talk to me in English before and now talking to me.  Some of the kids are getting talker.  I want to tell you about each of them, but I need tp focus on them and the work in Cambodia, while I’m here.  I will tell you more later.

I will tell you about Virak.  Virak is the young boy that we took out of the dump, because of money raise by two schools in Winnipeg.  I was there when he first arrived in dirty clothes and crying.  Remember that the only thing that made Virak stop crying when he arrived was to read him a book.  Needless to say, he brought out book after book.  And, the most incredible thing, he’s starting to speak English.  When I arrived, he said “Hello Gerry”.  He can say many words from the pictures I point out in the book.  CCH is doing wonders.

I must go and help the children prepare for their Christmas party.  I love this place and will show you pictures very soon.  We should be able to have a short video and slide show for you on Christmas. 

Thank you for caring about these children.  Love Gerry

The Day has Almost Arrived

Hello,

It’s almost been six months since I got back to Winnipeg. In the past six months, I’ve received hundreds of e-mails from my new friends in Cambodia and the children. The e-mails are incredibly special and I hope to share some of them with you soon.

Finally, everything is falling into place to launch our new organization here in Canada. I’ve been working on the organization evey single night since I’ve returned. The one thing that has kept me completely driven is the many great helping people that I’ve met in the past few months. We’ve also been able to sponsor a girl to English school and buy a few bikes for kids to attend classes. Every little bit helps.

I have very exciting news for you. I will launch our new Fund and web site.  Our Fund will not only change lives in Cambodia, but will change lives here at home in Canada. I’ve already had a great opportunity to get involved with youth in our city and tell them about my stories.

Thank you for supporting me on this journey. Stay tuned for some special announcements.

Love Gerry

Great News

Hello,

I have some great news!!! I just heard that our new Fund to help Cambodian children and youth has been approved. WE can now issue Canadian Registered charity receipts for donations to the Fund.

It took three months to get everything in place. I’m excited about the change that we can make for our friends and family in Cambodia. Our first project will focus on helping youth that came from the Stung Meanchey dump and allowing more children to leave the dump for a new life of hope.

I will announce the name of the Fund and release the web site soon.

Thank you for all your encouragement.

Love Gerry