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Good out of bad

Good can come out of bad, especially if you make it happen yourself!!!!
Gerry

Hi there,

I want to tell you what happened after my video camera got stolen. I received many calls from people upset for me. My aunt told me that “Something good will come out of this.” She told me that “It was part of my plan”.
To be honest with you, at the time, I can’t say that I completely believed this in my heart. I mean bad things happen to people all the time and I’m not sure things always turn out for the better. Late at night, I was reflecting on this idea about a life plan. I was almost asleep, when I jumped out of bed with the answer. It’s not about sitting back and hoping that good will come out of bad. It’s about making it happen.
I got on the computer and spent the entire night doing research and writing my contacts in Cambodia and making plans. I wasn’t going to wait for good to come out of bad, I was going to make it happen. As I worked, the plan unfolded before my eyes and I knew I was not working alone.

On Monday July 16th, 2007, a young 16 year old girl that lives in a hut in the countryside of Cambodia, started English classes and a dream for her came true. All because, someone stole my video camera.

Thank you
Love Gerry

Stolen Hope

Hello,

I think that many of you have already my story about the stolen video camera. I wanted to tell you about what actually happened, because it’s been a good learning experience for me.

I’ve been crazy busy working during the day and working of the charity every night. On Thursday night, I stayed up until 3:00am, putting together a presentation to give a Grade One class in the city about Street Kids. The classroom raised funds to help a young boy, Virak, get out of the dump. I had videos of Virak as he first arrived at the centre and say hello to the children. I also had a video of children at the school for children of poverty, where the kids in Cambodia sang to the kids here in Canada. The song was “We can change the world”.

Friday morning, I rushed out of my house, because I had a two hour meeting at 8:30am in the morning. I threw all my presentation material in my car (i.e. digital camera, video camera and connectors). When I got to the office, I parked in my regular parkade that has security guards. I was in a rush and just left my bag on the floor of my vehicle for my two hour meeting. When I returned to my car, my window was broken and everything was gone.

The security guards told me that he say two young boys, about 16 years old, run away with my stuff. It was very hard for me. They didn’t just steal physical goods, they stole something that was very important to me. It’s like they stole some hope I had for those wonderful children.

I mean, the children’s very lives and struggles were on those video tapes. And now, little Virak and Srey Mom and my Yellow Class are with a group of kids that chose to steal from others. I was with the poorest of the poor, living eating and sleeping in a garbage dump and never once did someone try to take my video camera. Frankly, I never met more generous people in my life than those I met in Cambodia that had nothing.

The loss was a big lesson for me. It was a lesson about not leaving things in my vehicle. But, it was really a bigger life lesson.

Bad luck? Good luck? It’s Too Soon to Tell!

Love Gerry

Update

Hi there,

I continue to work through requirements for a Registered Charity. I’ve made many great contacts with people and will have things set up shortly.

I’ve been getting many e-mails from the children at CCH, the School for Poverty Children and Green Gecko. They are the most precious e-mails. It continues to surprise me that a person can make a difference to these children in a matter of a few months.

When you think you are too small to make any difference in this big world, all you need to do is think about that one person whose life you can change. That will mean the world to you. This week, I’m going to show you some of the e-mails I’ve received from some of the kids in Cambodia. They will warm your heart.

Love Gerry

Two more children

Hello,

I’m continuing with the process to set up a Canadian Registered Charity fund. It’s been challenging and frustrating at times.

I just got the profile of two children that were just taken into CCH. The boy is age 10 and the girl is age 7. Their father left them and there mother just got sentenced to 10 years in jail for trying to sell her daughter. The kids are staying with their elderly grandmother right now and have no place to call home. CCH is full. That said, father Sokha decided to bring the children to CCH to give them a chance at life and save them from a fate that could be much worse.

It makes all the efforts worthwhile. I can’t think of a better place than the Centre for Children’s Happiness. I hope you will continue to support me and my efforts to assist this wonderful home that is a light for so many in need. I wish you could have come with me to feel the love and know each child.

Love Gerry

My Special Project

Hello,

I have some exciting news to share.

The last few days, I’ve been working on a plan to set up a Canadian Registered Charity that can support my special projects in Cambodia. The benefit of getting charity status is that all donations made to these projects could be tax deductible in Canada. This would make a huge difference in my fundraising activities. I’m close to having a structure in place that would quality as a Canadian Registered Charity. Please stay tuned.

Why am I so excited about getting this organization established?

A new home for CCH children!!!!!!!!

I was planning on returning to the dump on the last few days of my trip. I made a decision not to go to the dump, because I realized that I couldn’t do anything for those children right now. My time would be better spent at CCH, with the children I could impact.

The hardest part about being at the dump was the realization that there is nothing we could do to help those children. All the rooms at CCH are full and we aren’t able to bring any more of them to the centre. I have been thinking about this non stop.

At CCH, I started working on a plan with the Director for a new CCH home. We started a draft plan and even identified property where it could be built. My dream is to build a new CCH home with money from Canada. This new home would free up space for approximately 32 more children over the next couple years.

The plan is actually to open a centre for the transition of the older children to life outside of the orphanage. There are a number of children that will reach the age of 17 or 18 in the next couple of years. Our plan involves setting up a transition home, where the youth will be charged a very low rent that increases as they stay over a five year period. The plan would also combine other efforts such as job experience, training, micro businesses and counselling with the youth. We hope to also have life skills program. These children have done so well getting to this stage in life. The youth can also work at CCH on construction, cooking and tutoring to earn income to pay the low rent. It is a first step towards independent living. They are family and you don’t leave family members when they turn 18. And I have to tell you, the specific youth I know around this age are the most incredible loving people. They all study very hard and I will do everything I can to help them through this next phase of their life.

The other benefit is that the free rooms at CCH will be used immediately to bring back many more children from the dump. This literally means turning a persons life around 360 degrees. In my mind, there can be nothing more important.

Please consider offering your support. I can guarantee you not one cent will be wasted. This is a great place and I had the chance to see everything about how it works. I’m directly invovled in running this project and all donations to this project will be used specifically for the new centre. There are no administration fees at all. 100% will be used on the project. I will personally pay all administration related fees including costs to set up a charity, fund transfer fees, bank charges and any other administrative costs. Your donation will literally be used to buy the land and build the home where these children sleep.

Please stay tuned for more information.

Thank you for caring.

Love Gerry

PS: I get many letters from the children. I will share some of their letters with you later. They are very precious. I’m so lonely and will be visiting there again soon. I’m going out to a few schools in the next couple weeks to talk about my experiences and about the children they helped to sponsor. I have a picture show and many videos to show them. I can’t wait to tell you about talking to these Grade one classes.

Many thanks, but it doesn’t end - Stories to Come!!

Hello,

I have to give my thanks for many people that have inspired me throughout my journey. If you know me well, you already know that the decision to leave my job and my family and home for a while, took me a long time. I received lots of support as I made these decisions that I knew were right for me. I want to thank my many family and friends that supported me in my decisions. I think that people realize I’ve been longing for something different for a long time. I’ve received lots of support from people through their words and actions.

I also want to thank PricewaterhouseCoopers. I have received great support from our leaders here in Winnipeg. I was worried about requesting time off for this journey and quickly realized that their were many people that would support this request. PwC also has a Foundation that is actively involved in providing financial and other support in the community. Our office provides volunteers for local volunteer work, every month. It also supports volunteers within the company by giving grants to their not-for-profit organizations, when an employee volunteers a certain portion of their time. The other thing that I have realized is that many of the project planning and management skills that I have learned at PwC can be used in these not-for-profit organizations. I’m proud to work for this company.

Thank you to everyone involved. Please keep checking the blog. I have many exciting stories to tell you. Also, the journey doesn’t end here. There are many exciting plans in place.

Love Gerry

Saying Goodbye to CCH (CDCC House)

Hello,

I spent an afternoon at the CDCC house that is part of the CCH. As I arrived at the gates by tuk tuk, I was greeted by many young children as they ran up to us from all directions. Again, in true CCH form, there were many hugs. I spent the afternoon playing with many of the children. There are a few extra special kids here that I really wanted to visit again.

There are currently two girls that stay at the CDCC house, that are sponsored from Winnipeg. Srey Pich is a beautiful little girl that is sponsored by my niece Hannah. Her sister, Srey Muoy is a super hugger that is sponsored by the Grade One Class of Ecole St. Avila School. Srey Pich, always carries my backpack. Again this day, she immediately pulled it off my back and carried it around. Srey Muoy hung over me the entire afternoon. She is an angel. We put a Khmer music CD in the stereo and the next thing I knew was that we had a dance party with more than 40 of the children. It was tons of fun for all of us. the kids wouldn’t leave me alone the whole time. They would bring me glasses of water without me asking. They would rush up to hold my hand, when another child would let go of me.

It took me a long time to say goodbye to everyone at CDCC. All the children wanted to hug me and personally say goodbye. They came running with homemade gifts and letters in hand. Many of the letters said “I love you” on them. Like I’ve said many times, this place is full of love. For many of these children, this is their only family. This is their life.

When I got back in the tuk tuk, the children swarmed around us. It was so hard to watch them grab at my hand as the driver moved forward and the kids ran with us. I felt very sad to leave them. At least I knew in my heart that I would definitely be back here soon.

When I look at this picture I already get lonely and sometimes get upset. These children have so much love to give and yet no Mom or Dad to personally tuck them in at night. CCH is amazing for giving these children a chance to have a “real” family and good childhood memories. I hope and pray that I have added something to them and maybe created some memories to last. I hope they know that I don’t just “leave” here. I will be back soon.

As we drive away, I catch the eyes of the children. The little girl with the big brown eyes in the middle of the picture is Srey Muoy. Thank you to Hannah and the Ecole St. Avila School for supporting the two children here at CDCC. Tomorrow, I will tell you about CCH and another beautiful child sponsored from Winnipeg, Virack.

Love Gerry

Little Boy Virak

Little Boy Virak and the Winnipeg schools that helped him.

Hello,

I want to tell you about a special little boy named Virak. I first heard about Virak from his sister Naran at CCH. She wrote me an e-mail about her little brother. This little boy was not able to attend school and stayed in a small shack at the edge of the garbage dump, where most of the garbage pickers live. Naran was very worried about that her brother would not have the chance to get out of this situation.

In Winnipeg, two local schools have taken interest in my journey to Cambodia and decided to hold fundraising activities. The teachers and students of Ecole St. Avila School and the Princess Margaret School in Winnipeg raised enough money together to sponsor this child. I talked to father Sokha and we made arrangements to bring the little boy to CCH from the dump.

I had the opportunity to be at CCH when the little boy arrived there on a motorbike. Virak came to CCH with nothing but the clothes on his back. At first, he looked scared and cried the whole time. Immediately, the children of CCH surrounded him and hugged him over and over again. The little kids took him and tried to play with him. Virak was scared. Nothing worked with him, until finally we read him a book. He loved this little book about dressing up for Halloween. He didn’t even understand what “Halloween” was, but liked the pictures of the many costumes. I read the book to him many times.

Over the day, the kids continued to play with him and hug him. Gradually, he started to smile. Then, her started to play. Then, he started to run around like a little kid with the rest of them. Over the next few days, I saw Virak full of smiles. One day, Virak was taken to the doctor to get many vaccinations. He was also given an HIV test, which is a standard procedures for new children at CCH. I saw a staff person get him some clothes. Virak had new shorts and new shirts to wear. He was a delight.

Virak doesn’t realize what just happened to him. At the moment he arrived on the motorbike, his life changed forever. There was little hope for him living at the dump. This all changed in an instant. He will have food, clothes, health care, good family and receive an education.

…… All of this, because two small classes at a school in Winnipeg, Manitoba decided to make CCH a special place for him too. Thank you to the teachers and the classes of Ecole St. Avila School and the Princess Margaret School. I saw first hand, what we can all do together.

Love Gerry.

Saying Goodbye to CCH

Hello,

Saying Goodbye to CCH was very hard for me. I have come to love this place all all the children here. I can’t tell you the feeling that comes across me as I step through the gates to the many children running up to me with open arms.

The whole day was very difficult. A few of the children often cried throughout the day, when we talked about me trip home. Many cried as they hugged me goodbye and me too. All throughout the day, I was given little cards and drawings from the children. Many of the cards said that they loved me. These children have so much love to offer. It’s often overwhelming.

The only way I could get through the day was to remember that I will be back here soon. I also kept in mind that I needed to go home, so I could work for the children and CCH. This is something that I couldn’t do effectively from Cambodia. Still. It was sad to say goodbye.

I don’t know how I’m going to feel being back at home. I don’t know how I’m going to feel with all these little angels so far away. I guess time will tell.

Love Gerry

My Angels

Hello,

I can’t believe that three months have passed so quickly. This journey for me has not ended, but has only just begun.

to my friends in Hanoi at the Dragonfly that welcomed me my first night alone…
to the street vendors in Hanoi that fed me many late evenings…
to the kids from the village tribes in Sapa and the girls feeding me rice wine….
to the man that got so excited when I bought $10 on a pair of pants from him…
to the families running from the dirt roads in Hoi An to greet me on my motorbike….
to my friend selling pineapples on the beach and the lady that reminded me of Grandma…
to the hotel workers sleeping on the floors in the reception area…
to the boy teaching me Vietnamese at the home stay in the Mekong Delta…
to the lady that stopped the guard from hitting the kids at the Cambodia border crossing…
to the kids flying kites at the Cambodian border….
to the kids full of hugs and wanting to hold my hand at the Centre for Children’s Happiness…
to the kids at the dump that would look me straight in the eye…
to the CCH kids that taught me to play Cambodian games…
to my CCH family that sang the whole way back from our trip to the beach (I wish time would have stopped right then)…
to the kids that had to push the CCH van to get it started…
to the people playing games all around the streets of Cambodia…
to the kids from the Phnom Penh orphanage that danced with me at river side…
to the kids from my “Yellow Class” at the Green Gecko project in Siem Reap…
to my friend Mr Moon that told me his life story…
to the many kids I met living and sleeping on the streets in Siem Reap…
to the girls at the restaurant in Siem Reap that sat with me many evenings…
to the man that I met me on the road that brought me to the School for Children of Poverty…
to the volunteers at the school that ate at the Pagoda so they could teach the children for free…
to the many inspiring people I met that have taken different paths in their life to help others…
to the children filling my small classroom at the School for Children of Poverty…
to the smiling faces all over this wonderful country…
to the family in Siem Reap that made me feel at home with them in their home…
to the kids at CCH that made me feel so loved and wanted…
and mostly….
to all the children that told me… “I’m doing fine, but with some sad.”
I say Thank You.
You are my Angels.
Goodbye for now.

Love Gerry